Enneagram couples

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ENNEAGRAM COUPLES
ENTHUSIAST & ACHIEVER
Vaveen : Enthusiast (7)
- Gluttony, lust,
trouble committing,
perma-smile
Conflict: 7 disgusts 3 with her laziness and
ego
Harmony: 7 allows 3 to relax, 3 teaches
7 to do work
Tiana : Achiever (3)
-Success is key,
love is earned
through status
PEACEMAKER & INDIVIDUALIST
Marshall:
Peacemaker (9)
- pushover at job,
sell on his
dreams due to
what people
say, indecisive
Lily :
Individualist (4)
- Creative talent,
hogs conversation
time
Conflict: Trouble when they don’t agree, 4 being
distracted from the relationship by other
opportunities
Harmony: 9 allows 4 to pursue her options, 4
plans out romantic dates
PEACEMAKER & PERFECTIONIST
Ray : Peacemaker(9)
- I don’t know what I
said to make you mad
Debra : Perfectionist (1)
- What the bleep did
you do wrong this time
9 delegates
into laziness &
insensitivity
while 1 chases
perfectionism
in her partner
Mutual criticisms,
challenge each
other’s
viewpoints
INDIVIDUALIST & ENTHUSIAST
7 takes 4 on his adventure; 4 impresses 7
through her talents, gives 7 hope
Use each other for alternate material
motives at 1st
Rapunzel: individual (4)
- Creative talents,
leader of the dance
Flynn: Enthusiast (7)
- Smiley, ego, looking
for the rich lifestyle
INDIVIDUALIST & HELPER
Miss Piggy: Individualist (4)
Wants to be the star, always
Kermit the Frog: Helper (2)
Has to cater to the needs of a
lot of weird friends
4 is overbearing and 2 feels the strain
2’s acceptance & love of 4’s eccentricities
4’s loyalty
PERFECTIONIST &LOYALIST
Hermione: Perfectionist (1)
It’s LeviOsa, not LevioSAAAA
Ron: Loyalist (6)
Worried, Jealous, Prone to fight with friends
Inability to confess feeling, 6’s
jealousy which 1 cannot easily
assuage
Loyalty, ability to work as a
team for common goal
ACHIEVER & HELPER
Rhett: Helper (2)
Sticks loyally to
Scarlett, cares for his
love rival
Scarlett: Achiever (3)
Determination, see
Searle
Conflict: 3 does not
give to 2 emotionally,
2 chases 3 as a
fantasy
Harmony: 2 is loyal
to 3 for as long as 2
can be, 3 finds the
good in 2
ACHIEVER & HELPER
Jack Twist: Helper (2)
Almost maternal to the
sheep, flirty
Harmony
Loyalty, teamwork
ability
Conflict
2 rushes into the
relationship, 3
cannot bring it
where it hurts 3’s
reputation
Ennis del Mar:
Achiever (3)
Marries and has
children for the
status of it, does
not want to look
socially different
INDIVIDUALIST & HELPER
Tony: Helper (2)
His priorities lie with other
people, his friends, his
lover, his gang
Maria: Individualist (4)
Flamboyant, wants to be
noticed and prove her
maturity
Conflict:
obsession with
one another,
which interferes
with daily life
Harmony:
2’s willingness to
sacrifice for 4, 4’s
ability to
sympathize with
2
PERFECTIONIST & ENTHUSIAST
Aladdin: Enthusiast (7)
Optimistic, chasing royal
life, doesn’t mourn being
an orphan
Jasmine: Perfectionist (1)
Finds the holes in the
system, does what she
wants
Harmony:
7 doesn’t
expect 1 to
conform, 1
judges 7 by
her heart.
Conflict:
7 lies to 1 in an
attempt to
seem grander
than 7 is, 1
catches 7’s
scheme easily
CHALLENGER & INVESTIGATOR
Harmony:
5 can calm 8’s
negative feelings
about being different,
8 is impressed by 5’s
resourcefulness
Conflict:
When he becomes
reclusive, 8 is angered
Shrek: Investigator (5)
Doesn’t do feelings,
natural resources,
poetic
Fiona: Challenger (8)
Hot-tempered,
motivates to action
CHALLENGER & INVESTIGATOR
Conflict
8’s anger
scares 5
away, 5
finds places
of solitude
to avoid 8
Belle
Investigator (5)
Beast
Challenger (8)
Prefers
books to
company
Great
presence,
lots of anger
Harmony
8 strongly
defends 5, 5
shares
knowledge
with 8.
PEACEMAKER & PERFECTIONIST
Simba: Peacemaker (9)
Nala: Perfectionist (1)
“I’ll run away and sing
Hakuna Matata all day
long before I take the
throne.”
“I win, you lose,
stop moping and
go do what’s
right.”
Simba and Nala
Conflict
1 is frustrated
when 1 cannot
spur 9 into
action, 9 wants
1 to stop
bothering 9.
Harmony
1 supports 9, 9
plays friendly
games with 1
and takes 1
places to
make 1happy.
PEACEMAKER & ENTHUSIAST
Odysseus: Enthusiast (7)
& Penelope: Peacemaker (9)
Seeking new
adventure
and pleasure
Waits patiently,
doesn’t stand
up for herself.
Conflict:
7 leaves 9 lonely, 9
cannot assert for herself
without 7
Harmony:
9 never loses faith in 7, 7
sees 9 as a safehouse to
return to when
adventure loses flavor.
REFLECTION QUESTION
• Answer 3 out of 6 questions in the next slide to
earn an optional Bronze credit for ILCP
The reflection should be sent to MO
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1) How do you see the Enneagram types affecting your personal relationships? (It
does not have to be a romantic relationship; you can describe how the type
affects a friendship or family bond.)
2) How do you feel your personal Enneagram type affects your viewing of
literature and pop culture?
3) Do you identify with the characters of your type, or do you have a distaste for
them? Is this related to similarities or differences they have to your personality?
4) How does the knowledge of the Enneagram field of study in general affect the
way you view literature and pop culture? Do you analyze fictional characters by
type? How does this change the way you see them?
5) What other works can you think of where a character's motivations make sense
once you figure out that character's type? Think back not only to recreational
readings and viewings, but also of materials you read and viewed for class.
6) Do you see any other personality traits in these characters that differ from those
identified?

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